Love That Lasts - A Christian Perspective on Valentine‘s Day
love that goes beyond grand gestures and fleeting emotions. His love is constant, selfless, and so different from human love.
2/8/20253 min read
As Valentine’s Day approaches, I’ve been reflecting on the different kinds of love. While this day is often about romantic relationships, we should also take time to think about God’s unconditional love for us—love that goes beyond grand gestures and fleeting emotions. His love is constant, selfless, and so different from human love.
God’s Definition of Love
The Bible gives us a clear definition of love and how powerful it truly is. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV), we learn:
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”
Love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a choice and an action. It’s deciding to love someone the way Christ loves us: selflessly, sacrificially, and unconditionally.
Valentine’s Day for Singles: A Time to Focus on God’s Love
I know that as a single woman, seeing couples everywhere can be tough. You might start wondering if you’ll ever find your person or if there’s something wrong with you. It’s not easy out here as a Christian woman who desires a godly man—someone who will help you grow closer to God, not pull you away from Him.
But instead of letting this day make you feel lonely or discouraged, use it as a time to grow in your personal relationship with God. Get to know Him before rushing into something worldly. Trust that He will bring the right man into your life at the perfect time—His time, not yours.
And remember: your worth isn’t defined by your relationship status (or “situationship” status, as people say nowadays). Your worth is found in Jesus.
Psalm 136:25 says:
“Give thanks to the God of heaven. His love endures forever.”
So instead of feeling down, spend time in prayer, worship, or do something nice for yourself—go out with a friend, treat yourself, or just enjoy some peaceful time alone.
Love in Marriage
For those who are married, Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to reconnect and remind yourselves that God should always be at the center of your marriage.
In Ephesians 5:25, husbands are called to love their wives “just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” And Ephesians 5:33 encourages wives to respect and honor their husbands, building them up in faith and love.
Instead of focusing only on gifts or grand gestures, take this time to grow spiritually together—pray, study the Bible, and ask God to strengthen your relationship. The best kind of love is one that honors God.
Sharing God’s Love with Others
Valentine’s Day isn’t just about romantic love—it’s a reminder to share God’s love with the world. In John 13:34-35, Jesus tells us:
“Love one another as I have loved you. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples.”
There are so many ways to spread love:
• Tell someone what you appreciate about them
• Encourage a coworker or friend
• Reach out to someone who’s struggling
• Ask how someone is really doing
• Donate to those in need
• Practice forgiveness
Final Thoughts
I encourage you to reflect on how God’s love is different from anything we can experience on earth. Human love may fade, disappoint, or fail, but God’s love is eternal. Keep Him at the center of your life and relationships.
And never forget the greatest love story ever—Jesus’ sacrifice for us. That was the ultimate act of love, and I truly hope everyone gets to experience it.
Let’s end with one of my favorite Bible verses:
Romans 8:38-39
“For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
You are deeply loved. Never forget that.